tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post1642170436777316825..comments2023-10-29T09:33:36.668-04:00Comments on Teachings of the Horse: A Hard LessonVictoria Cummingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17267314663679137147noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-43801637066925538252008-06-26T20:38:00.000-04:002008-06-26T20:38:00.000-04:00What a sad story :( Having just rescued 4 horses I...What a sad story :( <BR/><BR/>Having just rescued 4 horses I am sometimes overwhelmed by how many horses in need there are. <BR/><BR/>Of my little herd two were starved almost to death at a "rescue" (one of those with a neglected horrible tooth/nasal abscess), one was on her way to slaughter, and one was beaten by a drunken owner. They are in a great home here now and I am loving finally having horses after waiting until I could afford them :) <BR/><BR/>I love your site...I just dealt with a hoof abscess in one of the girls' feet and your post in 2007 about Life Lessons from Hoof Abscesses was exactly what I needed to read :) <BR/><BR/>If you want to see my sweeties, I just made a little video of them here:<BR/>http://youtube.com/watch?v=C313Rco5bQk<BR/><BR/>I keep a doggie and horse blog (I have 6 rescued dogs as well). It was all about dogs but now they share their blog with their hooved sisters :) <BR/><BR/>I'll be visiting your blog regularly! It's always nice to get tips from other horse people who clearly love their horses!<BR/><BR/>Woofs and whinnies,<BR/>Sue, The Yahoos, and The Flowers, too<BR/><BR/>http://smrp.typepad.comDream Valley Ranchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09744924786134552599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-475357250558453562008-06-16T16:51:00.000-04:002008-06-16T16:51:00.000-04:00Corrrection: It's "Connect with your horse at Lib...Corrrection: It's "Connect with your horse at Liberty Training" - Sorry.Victoria Cummingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17267314663679137147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-48183250160455476092008-06-16T16:50:00.000-04:002008-06-16T16:50:00.000-04:00HI Stina - Thanks for coming to visit! For those ...HI Stina - Thanks for coming to visit! For those of you who haven't seen Stina's videos, please check out her beautiful work with horses on YouTube: stinahumana and "horses condition with Liberty Training". It makes me feel good every time I watch!Victoria Cummingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17267314663679137147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-37156429818047500712008-06-16T16:19:00.000-04:002008-06-16T16:19:00.000-04:00Its sad to read about the woman who thought that t...Its sad to read about the woman who thought that the expensive horse was the answer to success. And sad for the horse to be passed around. I hope the woman could get in contact with Carolyn Resnick or another good horsewoman/man around so she could see that she needed to educate herself.<BR/><BR/>I got almost for free a bunch of rescue horses, and with Carolyns help they are now doing very good<BR/><BR/>Us riders and horse keepers need to understand that its up to us the success - so we need to educate ourselves<BR/><BR/>Kind regards StinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-51789938048486096582008-06-16T09:01:00.000-04:002008-06-16T09:01:00.000-04:00I can't grasp it, somehow. But I don't compete, no...I can't grasp it, somehow. But I don't compete, nor do I have that desire. I have to "ditto" Arlene's comment there. I feel that she was selfish in her own desire to win. I feel sorry for the horses. If she lost that money and spent that money, then she deserves what she got, however the horses do not! Sorry. It's assenine behavior.Calliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704537697611988375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-33228101922867560392008-06-14T09:56:00.000-04:002008-06-14T09:56:00.000-04:00When people view horses merely as a commodity, the...When people view horses merely as a commodity, the horses suffer. Hasn't horse dealing always been a province populated by those of dubious ethics? Add an egocentric rider who thinks that money brings success, and someone will be disappointed. <BR/><BR/>There are a number of very expensive horses in the barn where I keep my cheap horses ($1,500 and $1,000) and I wonder about "average" riders who have spent between $25,000 and $75,000 (at current exchange rates from Sterling) basically to acquire a fairly talented horse that someone else has trained. <BR/><BR/>It worries me when the owner of such an expensive horse is told not to bring her dog to the barn because she can't ever train it to "sit" or "come".whitehorsepilgrimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17336201990231834504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-60855067682222556802008-06-14T07:46:00.000-04:002008-06-14T07:46:00.000-04:00I've always thought that in the case of 'difficult...I've always thought that in the case of 'difficult' horses, the people who give up on them are one of two kinds. Those who can't be bothered working through the problems, and those who simply cannot find that connection with the horse, no matter how hard they try. I don't even hold anything against those who can't be bothered working through the problems, it's those who try to take shortcuts by forcing and beating the horse into complience that I have the problem with. The fact is some horse-person pairs just don't meld together. And I guess some horses simply have, like you said, lost their way. But some are lucky, such as Silk to find someone they can trust and connect with.Geckohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14869977105238208893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-60215817187932542072008-06-14T00:37:00.000-04:002008-06-14T00:37:00.000-04:00It would be interesting to know more of the story ...It would be interesting to know more of the story here. Like Arlene said, why did this horse start being a problem? Was it a physical issue? A rider or training issue? I am sure the horse was not this way to begin with, or she would not have paid so much for it!? I just get sad that horses get passed around. It must be tough for them.Pony Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02464088874054923635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-91900563337356836912008-06-13T23:19:00.000-04:002008-06-13T23:19:00.000-04:00Wow, that just so bums me out. The one bright spot...Wow, that just so bums me out. The one bright spot, as you say, is that you and Silk found each other.<BR/><BR/>I can't understand how someone could sell her horses--didn't they mean anything to her? Didn't they have a friendship or emotional bond? To compete on a higher level, sure, go for it if that's what you want to do, but to sell your friends to get there? That's so unbelieveably cold.<BR/><BR/>I must now go cuddle with my kitties.Boneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07002385549246608134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-91512671823383352412008-06-13T21:28:00.000-04:002008-06-13T21:28:00.000-04:00LJB - Yes, I like "hard feelings" as a way of desc...LJB - Yes, I like "hard feelings" as a way of describing it. What a gift the horses give us to be able to let go of all the bad things that people do to them.<BR/>Ell - I don't think I really gave her any advice except to try to steer her in the direction of someone who is kind and gives the horse an opportunity to share equally in the experience.<BR/>Arlene -You said it all. I thought of you the whole time I wrote this post and I've been waiting for your response. I know I can't help every horse, but at least I can write this blog and advocate for them.<BR/>DJ - I've been around those kind of people. You can only hope that the trainers have some integrity and kindness for the horses.Victoria Cummingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17267314663679137147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-65008456899325524572008-06-13T20:54:00.000-04:002008-06-13T20:54:00.000-04:00I used to ride one of the horses owned by a wealth...I used to ride one of the horses owned by a wealthy woman who repeatedly overmounted herself, thinking she would win the next big dressage title. She never got beyond "Irene, Irene, the training level queen," and she went through several marvelous, talented and sensitive horses. The trainers laughed all the way to the bank.Deejbrownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08143307437996045353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-83236432268749535152008-06-13T16:56:00.000-04:002008-06-13T16:56:00.000-04:00I can't believe this woman would sell her three ho...I can't believe this woman would sell her three horses and take out a loan to buy a horse for 100 thousand dollars just to compete at a higher level. I feel sorry for all of her horses past and present. My guess is she got a good horse, no one is going to get that amount of money for a bad, unrideable, dangerous horse. I can only wonder if she and her trainer weren't prepared or qualified to own and train a horse this good. Maybe the expensive horse she had to auction off suffered from a physical problem they never investigated.<BR/>Perhaps, she should have kept the horses she already owned and stayed at the level of riding where she was competent. Now she has another four year old gelding and my hunch is this one won't work out either in the long run until she gets another trainer who is qualified to teach her and her horse what they need to know to compete at a higher level. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry if I seem a little hostile about this but some people will do anything for their own egos and it always seems a horse gets mistreated in one way or another.<BR/>Silk was lucky you found her, I hope the horse she auctioned off can have the same happy ending you and Silk did.Grey Horse Mattershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05837575441967937196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-75196285072703315432008-06-13T11:31:00.000-04:002008-06-13T11:31:00.000-04:00This does happy at all levels! It is a shame. Brav...This does happy at all levels! It is a shame. Bravo to you for giving good advice. I had not heard of carolyn Resnick. I am checking hermethod out already and intrigued! Thanks!<BR/>I must add that I know a lot of trainers who care very much about properly pairing owners and horses.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-72175227770065084642008-06-13T07:20:00.000-04:002008-06-13T07:20:00.000-04:00I, too, hope this woman has a better story to tell...I, too, hope this woman has a better story to tell. It is so sad for the people, and so sad for the horses. Both horses and humans want to get along, then fear and defensiveness gets in the way. <BR/><BR/>I was talking with a colleague yesterday about how much easier it is for a horse to let go of hard feelings (that is so descriptive! "hard feelings"!) than it is for a person to let go. Let's hope this woman finds clear direction of how to proceed with her four year old -- it is way too easy for us to create confusion and worry in our horses, totally accidentally but there nonetheless!Lasell Jaretzki Bartletthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16134811219333881818noreply@blogger.com