tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post1145567953205168873..comments2023-10-29T09:33:36.668-04:00Comments on Teachings of the Horse: I Love MaresVictoria Cummingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17267314663679137147noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-48029500538535485552008-01-27T09:26:00.000-05:002008-01-27T09:26:00.000-05:00Hi, I just started blogging, and saw your blog> I ...Hi, I just started blogging, and saw your blog> I have and always will love horses> The love and comfort from horses is like no other, thanx for sharing yours>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-39041428783444934792008-01-25T19:51:00.000-05:002008-01-25T19:51:00.000-05:00Not too long ago, I wrote a post about how much I ...Not too long ago, I wrote a post about how much I love my mare, (see http://spottyhorse.blogspot.com/2007/11/mares.html) Lena. At the time, we still just had her and I was almost positive we'd get a second mare. We didn't, as it turns out, but our TB gelding is almost as much fun and Lena is totally in love.<BR/><BR/>I just found your blog and love what you have to say about life and horses and the soul-saving combination of the two. Well, three if you count dirt. <BR/><BR/>I also fell (twice) recently, so I think I'll check out your links in that post as well. :-)<BR/><BR/>Keep up the great writing!Jessica Boydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-68244121966610814022008-01-25T11:01:00.000-05:002008-01-25T11:01:00.000-05:00We have nothing but mare and fillies on our proper...We have nothing but mare and fillies on our property. We had one colt, a minature no less. Totally sweet guy and loved humans. Problem was, he loved the mares too, maybe a bit too much and we were just not set up for his constant breaking into the mares' fields. The mares wanted nothing to do with him. So for his own safety, we moved him to another farm.<BR/><BR/>Great blog. I will come back often.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-45442316394817482032008-01-25T01:01:00.000-05:002008-01-25T01:01:00.000-05:00I have 15 horses, 2 are stallions, 2 are geldings....I have 15 horses, 2 are stallions, 2 are geldings. And I love all of my babies.... but my girls are my GIRLS! They all have their own personalities and cycles and I can't imagine a single day without them in my life. But then again, I love roller coasters and with 11 mares, life has it's ups and downs!Aleta Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17096056289133965672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-84750845740054799172008-01-24T11:13:00.000-05:002008-01-24T11:13:00.000-05:00Mares are great, I love mine, they don't deserve t...Mares are great, I love mine, they don't deserve the bad press.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-75236446354499234852008-01-22T13:04:00.000-05:002008-01-22T13:04:00.000-05:00Mares will always have a special place in my heart...Mares will always have a special place in my heart. I as well have only had the pleasure of having mares. I find that there is always something new every single day with them. I figured that a gelding would rarely bring that excitement to my days. I love that they have attitude as I do. Never mean, never angry, but attitude. The "Don't do it like that, I'll show you how to do it right." kind of way. My first pony had such deep mothering insticts. She raised me through my teenage years and is still with me today. I have her picture ironed onto a pillow right here next to me on my futon. Though I do not own horses today, only a small dog, I have not forgotten her. RIP Bay.~*Mellie*~https://www.blogger.com/profile/02759385177639868712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-11565001877934094332008-01-21T19:33:00.001-05:002008-01-21T19:33:00.001-05:00I also just discovered your blog. We have three h...I also just discovered your blog. We have three horses - all mares - and love our "girls." When I say "the girls," people have to ask me "which ones?" because I refer to my two daughters as "the girls," our horses as "the girls," and our three standard poodles as "the girls." :^) We're full of moody and hormonal here - and like it that way! <BR/><BR/>Actually, our mares are so much easier to work with and better tempered than ALL the geldings at the barn where they are stabled. We are there daily and our horsey girls are gentle and sweet. <BR/><BR/>(Okay, Lady wasn't sweet when she got her nasal vaccination today, but otherwise she's a love.)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06342494603944690593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-3973033607856702142008-01-21T19:33:00.000-05:002008-01-21T19:33:00.000-05:00Thanks so much to all of you for your wonderful co...Thanks so much to all of you for your wonderful comments. There are certainly days when I wonder how can I afford these horses and why do I have them. Feeling your appreciation for them and for what I write makes me realize that those two red mares are indeed precious gifts.Victoria Cummingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17267314663679137147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-60941572847171440702008-01-21T18:41:00.000-05:002008-01-21T18:41:00.000-05:00I loved the part about your hair and her mane bein...I loved the part about your hair and her mane being the same color and you calling her your four legged sister. Your love for Silk and Siete is very touching to read about Victoria. It is also a tribute to the beauty and insight of your writing that I, who have only called a few fish and one turtle 'pets' throughout my life, keep coming back for more and more of your animal related wisdom. I swear you make me wish I had my own farm. And if you knew me a little, you would have some idea of how insane sounding this statement is coming from someone like me. My love to the girls. You've made this total stranger care for them.Gypsy at Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17106152285952023602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-29520946941234750472008-01-21T17:23:00.000-05:002008-01-21T17:23:00.000-05:00I have a deeper bond with my oldest mare, because ...I have a deeper bond with my oldest mare, because she and I are experiencing some of the same mid-life changes in our bodies, like random cysts popping up all over the place. I just posted a poem that is a bit of a tribute to mares on my blog: http://nuzzlingmuzzles.blogspot.com<BR/><BR/>I'm enjoying your writing.Nuzzling Muzzleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07649710635013663900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-15941320836366307912008-01-21T17:02:00.000-05:002008-01-21T17:02:00.000-05:00My mare sort of fell into my lap and is often mist...My mare sort of fell into my lap and is often mistaken for a gelding because she's so even tempered. I've never seen her get cranky with other horses or humans. I think I got blessed with very kind soul, and the more I get to know her the more I see characteristics of myself in her. My next horse will probably be a mare. :)<BR/>I found your blog by chance and will add it to my favorites. Good for you for taking in an overused show horse. The poor things deserve good homes and I'm very glad you were able to give her one.RunAwayPonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11602794150361755765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-4824201231551426732008-01-21T09:29:00.000-05:002008-01-21T09:29:00.000-05:00I agree that mares just seem to "click" I run thre...I agree that mares just seem to "click" I run three horses in Pennsylvania High School Rodeo and other various rodeo events, 2 of them are mares and the other is a gelding (who actually acts like a mare...) and I wouldn't trade those horses for the world! People often pink at my horses, about their bad moods, but really, that is it what makes mares MORE loveable! <BR/>Thank you for defending mares!<BR/><BR/>Robbi Nace<BR/>2008 Miss Pennsylvania High School Rodeo QueenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-31695542821388974072008-01-21T00:19:00.000-05:002008-01-21T00:19:00.000-05:00Your mare sounds like a great horse, congradulatio...Your mare sounds like a great horse, congradulations!Katyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05916939069368205464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-54286131894300044732008-01-20T22:40:00.000-05:002008-01-20T22:40:00.000-05:00I love mares, too. I've had horses for over 40 ye...I love mares, too. I've had horses for over 40 years now, and most of them have been mares, and most of those were just as kind, generous and willing when they were in heat as when they weren't. I believe the bad reputation of mares is 95% a myth that has been passed on by tradition. When a gelding has a bad day, people look for problems with his saddle, bit, rider, or health. When a mare has a bad day, people shrug it off and say, "It's because she's a mare."Ellen Nicholson Walkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08042935571224432748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-78774525889048255892008-01-20T22:32:00.000-05:002008-01-20T22:32:00.000-05:00Mares do get a bad rap. I'll admit,I own gelding...Mares do get a bad rap. I'll admit,I own geldings, but I've had the pleasure of riding many mares.<BR/><BR/>I strongly believe that sex doesn't matter, everyone has <B>their</B> horse out there. Its almost like a human soul mate. And you've found yours.ColoradoCowboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06594528805084044670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-90207546572050366872008-01-20T21:55:00.000-05:002008-01-20T21:55:00.000-05:00wonderful blog of note!I don't own a horse but my ...wonderful blog of note!<BR/>I don't own a horse but my daughter took lessons... we love horses.<BR/>LisaLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00677756878004784244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-87645333814589503962008-01-20T16:50:00.000-05:002008-01-20T16:50:00.000-05:00Wow.. I am so glad that you rescued Silk, she soun...Wow.. I am so glad that you rescued Silk, she sounds like a really good friend.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01876147299150358217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-54416899058042172412008-01-20T16:10:00.000-05:002008-01-20T16:10:00.000-05:00Here's where we definitely differ, Victoria; I wou...Here's where we definitely differ, Victoria; I wouldn't have a mare in my barn (Jenny, being a donkey from Mars, doesn't count.) The first horse our family had was a mare, and she was dandy, and I've certainly ridden plenty of mares that I like just fine. One of my former instructors used to swear chestnut mares were the worst (calling their behaviour Chestnut Mare Syndrome, which seemed remarkably like PMS). <BR/><BR/>But I like geldings, and they can be fireballs even without the hormones, that's for sure. I also used to ride a stallion that was a living terror to any man who tried to mount him--and I rode him bareback and used him to help roundup cattle on a friend's farm. <BR/><BR/>My suspicion is that I prefer geldings like I prefer neutered male cats, male dogs (not necessarily neutered!), and all my closest friends are men too. Maybe that's all because I have no brothers, and always wanted an older one! I'm sure a psych major would have a 'hay'day with this! :-)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12107236871193698777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-26248670991655684222008-01-20T15:45:00.000-05:002008-01-20T15:45:00.000-05:00mares certainly do present a different set of chal...mares certainly do present a different set of challenges, but they also have so much to offer!<BR/><BR/>though much that is said about their sensitive, temperamental natures may be true, those who claim mares are simply 'difficult' and dismiss them haven't taken the time and effort to truly understand and appreciate them. the fault is with the human, not the horse. we call ourselves horsemen, so if we then fail to understand mares or to find common ground with them, whose fault can it be but our own?<BR/><BR/>mares do require a certain patience and sympathy from us. and they don't just ask for our respect; they demand it. taking the time to develop an understanding with a mare is challenging, but it can also be very rewarding. <BR/><BR/>their intelligence, their sensitivity and their maternal instincts make them unique and special partners. they can teach us about patience, sympathy and humility, and help to make all of us better horsemen, if only we take the time to appreciate them.Grey Horse Mattershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05837575441967937196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-58180226696044727502008-01-20T13:20:00.000-05:002008-01-20T13:20:00.000-05:00I don't have horses, but reading this post reminds...I don't have horses, but reading this post reminds me of my girldog, a greyhound that died last year at age 14. The first four years of her life were spent at the track, in a crate, and handled by men. When I adopted her, she was afraid of men for months. She was the sweetest! Very intuitive. Everything that you describe about your mares.<BR/><BR/>Growing up, we could never have female dogs because, my mom said, they are "more vicious" than males.<BR/><BR/>We females sometimes get a "bad rep".<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the post.detroit doghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03636798112379229385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-51028483945960483172008-01-20T12:40:00.000-05:002008-01-20T12:40:00.000-05:00i like horse but. never ridei like horse but. never rideAll Thing Viralhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05053426592592481502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-17931917012925165802008-01-20T12:31:00.000-05:002008-01-20T12:31:00.000-05:00I just wanted to say how much I enjoy your blog. I...I just wanted to say how much I enjoy your blog. I have never had a horse although I have always wanted one. I love the stories and pictures of yours.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-10839194737525606132008-01-20T11:25:00.000-05:002008-01-20T11:25:00.000-05:00Very nice horses you have there!!!Very nice horses you have there!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-57099801826201914902008-01-20T10:24:00.000-05:002008-01-20T10:24:00.000-05:00Victoria, leading by example, last time I checked....Victoria, leading by example, last time I checked. I think I'd like to share some snoot with Rog and listen a bit more to the lessons of the ranch. ;-)Tréehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11742129819547567342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3344836954494496679.post-14393293588876546982008-01-20T08:57:00.000-05:002008-01-20T08:57:00.000-05:00I love my mare and my geldings too - but it's true...I love my mare and my geldings too - but it's true, they are different, and the mare is attuned to me (and everyone, actually) in a much more potent way.<BR/><BR/>If she hears children down our little road calling for their mother, she goes to the fence line nearest them and stands, ears pricked, until they are taken care of. The geldings will look up and listen for a moment, but they go back to grazing quickly.<BR/><BR/>She is incredibly attuned to my moods and feelings. If I'm in the barn mucking stalls and they're all out in the field, she will often come up and check on me, and if I'm feeling down about something she'll stay right there, keeping me company. (in fairness, I have to say my gelding does this too, but he has a more self-centered approach to it, LOL!)<BR/><BR/>I'd never owned a mare until this one, and it's easy for me to understand now that some horsepeople only want mares. They offer a level of connection that truly does seem to be telepathic.<BR/><BR/>I'm especially intrigued that you own Silk and her daughter. What an opportunity to experience a multi-generational equine connection! It must be fascinating to see how Siete is similar to and also different from Silk as she grows and learns. Thanks for sharing it so we can all get that experience, vicariously.billiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18187141867284800597noreply@blogger.com